How To Be Confident In An Interview: 14 Ways To Get Confidence

Confidence might not be the only thing that lands you the job. But when interviewing, it’s going to help you in a number of ways. For instance, having confidence during the interview gives the interviewer confidence that you can do the job. It also communicates that you can carry yourself in a professional manner. Lastly, it will make negotiations of salary a bit easier as you’ll be perceived as the best candidate for the job.

So how you can you exude confidence to those you are interviewing with? There are a few ways.

Ways To Show Confidence In An Interview

1. Speak clearly and with articulation

It’s important that you don’t ramble on. Imagine trying to be sold something in a retail store. If the sales associate you are speaking with is telling you sentence after sentence about why you should buy the product, what do you think is going to happen? You’re going to feel like they are falsely selling you. If they were to say, “You should buy this.” with only one impactful sentence, you’ll most likely respond to that better. Same goes for interviewing. Don’t over-articulate.

2. Body language is important

The best body language is a comfortable one. That means don’t fidget, don’t sit straight up like you aren’t comfortable. It’s okay to cross your legs and look comfortable. By having this body language it will put you in a dominant position, which is what you want.

3. Eye contact is important

Making frequent eye contact is very important. If you are constantly looking away from the person you are speaking with, it will appear as though you might be telling white lies or fibs. It won’t come across with confidence. Too much eye contact isn’t required. You can break away and look at something else. But be sure you are paying attention to how much eye contact you are giving.

4. Smile

Yes, smile every once in a while. But only when the time is right. Don’t smile when unprompted or else it will appear as though you are thinking about something other than what you are speaking about. It will make the other person feel uncomfortable.

5. Use your hands

Yes, using your hands is a good thing. Speak with expression. You can point, you can tap your hand on the desk or table. These are all okay things to do. Be sure that you don’t overdo it. Just do what feels comfortable to you.

6. Have water with you

It seems simple but if you need to clear your throat or you have a dry throat, you’ll feel uncomfortable. Have some water with you just in case. That way if you need it, it’s there. Additionally, it gives you something to do while interviewing and makes you look more comfortable.

7. Practice your delivery

Being prepared for the interview questions in advance will make you feel more confident. It’s important that you practice every single potential interview question you might receive and have a prepared answer.

8. Don’t overthink it

The worst thing you can do is start to overthink the scenario. Are they liking the interview? Are you doing a good job? Are you doing a bad job? Don’t think about these things. Just do your best and let the interview come to you.

9. Ask them questions

Don’t just let them ask you questions. Have a notebook where you have some prepared questions you’d like to have answered. It’s okay to have a pen and paper with you. Write down some general questions that you think are leading questions. Things like, “What’s your favorite thing about the work environment here?” that simple type of question can go a long way in making the conversation feel friendly.

10. Pay attention

This is a simple one but it’s really important. Don’t just hear someone, listen to someone. When they are talking, don’t be thinking about your next answer or question to whatever they are talking about. Watch their lips, and try to ingest as much as you can about what they are saying. Make them feel like you are listening to them. When they are speaking, that’s the perfect time to be making eye contact with them.

11. Don’t interrupt someone

Another very simple yet effective tactic. Don’t interrupt the person you are interviewing with. It will appear desperate and also rude. Let them finish what they are saying and then speak. If they are taking up too much of the conversation, that’s okay. Let them continue to do so. That means you’ll have less time to have to answer questions and that could be a great benefit for you.

12. Silence is okay

People often think that when they are prompted with a hard question, they need to respond right away. It’s okay to let the conversation take a pause. If you need a moment to think about your answer, all you have to do is say, “That’s a great question, let me think about that for a moment.” and then continue with your answer.

13. Wear something comfortable

Comfort is the same as confidence. If you don’t feel comfortable in what you’re wearing, then your body language will show that. Wear something that makes you feel confident and comfortable. If you don’t have one of those outfits, I suggest that you go out and buy one for your interview. If the interview requires you to dress up, it’s better to slightly underdress and be comfortable than to overdress and look uncomfortable.

14. Clean up

It sounds simple, but get yourself a new haircut. Or make sure you spent enough time before your interview getting prepared. Again, comfort is key here. But do anything you can to make you feel comfortable. If that means going for exercise before your interview, then do so. Find what makes you feel good and do that before your interview.

Preparation Will Make For Confidence

This may sound like the simplest task in all of this. And unfortunately, the one that’s going to take the longest for you to prepare for. But when you are ready to answer all of the questions that you might receive, it will inherently make you feel more confident. Imagine this like preparing for a sporting event as an athlete. If you know the other teams play and how they play the game, it gives you more confidence in what to look for.

Spending the time to go through the interview questions with a family member or friend will be of benefit here. They can give you feedback about how you might have answered the questions and what your demeanor looked like. If the conversation felt natural, then that’s a great sign. You don’t want to appear uncomfortable. That’s the key to confidence, looking comfortable.

Here are a few articles I recommend you read before and after your interview:
How long after an interview is a job offer made
How long do job interviews usually last
How to decline a job interview


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